DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30
Get married before its too late without getting worried about money because it will surely reach you if it is meant for you. Couples don’t die for hunger or shelter. Once you get married at the right age like 25 you enter in a different world, where your life’s priorities get change and your focus refines and redirects. You get more stable and mature. You get the job you have never ever imagined. You might get in a short phase of trouble or worry but it does not last for long ultimately you get the share of your partner.
Don’t make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.
Marry now with the little you have. Don’t wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.
My father said this to me: _When I was 25, I was talking about making billions before I marry. Many years later, billions didn’t come, yet no kid no wife… I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can I really take care of her? But right now She’s married with Four grown-up children. The guy that married her was still schooling then but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don’t wait.
Don’t make our mistakes, I see my childhood friends play with their kids. Most of them are not doing as well as me. But they are happier with their families. Trust me it isn’t money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With a well-planned life, they are happier.
Trust me it isn’t money, What is our problem? Build a mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still, we don’t have those things we dreamt of, and of course, the years we wasted, we can never have them never!
Please don’t be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20’s.What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grandfather. Please, young men, take my advice seriously. Marry, don’t be afraid, that girl you are finding too many faults it has many good qualities if you look well.
Don’t think you will get everything before you settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed by God grace.Ameen
Back in 90’s when we do not have much exposure to outdoor advertisements (Giant Billboards), Internet, smartphones, cafes, Malls (Packages/Emporium), Electronic Media, Cinemas, it was easy to survive and stay focused. No such elements mean no thirst for opposite gender (certain extent). Parents used to prefer knotting their children at the age of 23-25. Neither does anyone had such priorities like a high salary, settled man, separate home etc it was easy to find partners with similar preferences.
As compared to 2015′ onwards trends are another way around, extreme exposure to electronic media, internet, smartphone, Outdoor advertisements, Malls, modern lifestyle, enhanced shopping and hangout trends. In such circumstances, People have got high preferences for partners. And the marriage age has delayed to 28-30. Trends have got changed now.
Excellent article by. Dr.Alok Kar
WAKE UP PARENTS
Years back, poor illiterate parents produced
🔹 Professors.., whom I will refer to as Group ‘A’.
These Group ‘A’ Children struggled on their own after Primary 6 or Grade 12, to become notable personalities. Most of them
👉trekked to school barefooted
👉went to farms
👉fetched water and firewood
👉cared for domesticated animals
👉did some work including trading after school to survive.
Now Group ‘A’ ,who have now become Parents themselves are producing Group ‘B’ Children
These group B children are
🔹 helped in their homeworks or home assignments from nursery school through secondary schools to higher institutions.
🔹chauffeur driven to very expensive schools or are sent abroad to study.
🔹they can watch movies from morning till dawn after school.
🔹 they are treated like baby kings and queens.
🔹they don’t do any household chores.
🔹Food is put on the table for them,
🔹their plates are removed and washed by parents or house maids.
🔹They are given expensive cars and clothes,
🔹not forgetting big pocket money to be wasted !!!.
🔹Their parents help them in doing their assignments.
🤔 In spite of all these, only few can speak or write correctly. 😏
🤔Group ‘A’ Parents cared for their own parents and children, Group ‘B’,their Children are still struggling to find their feet at age 30+.‼️
🤔They find it difficult to do things on their own because they are used to being helped to think and doing things by Group ‘A’. So they can’t help themselves, their parents or the society. THEY ABANDON THEIR PARENTS IN THEIR BID TO ACQUIRE THE WORLD
😴 Where do you belong❓
🏮Reduce the pampering and the unnecessary help you offer your children.
🏮 Let your children grow in wisdom, intelligence and strength.
🏮Let them face the truth and the realities of life. Teach them to grow to become independent adults. Teach them to
👉respect others and
👉develop confidence in themselves.
🤔Parents, discipline your children to become disciplined adults, useful and not useless.
Share with all ur near ones & make a difference in their lives… 😊👍👍